Being born and dying often carry a few similarities. The hours and days around the event very often are anxious and uncomfortable for those involved. Very often family has many hours of time in anticipation. With death sometimes the dying do nothing but sleep. Often even they are awake, restless and anxious. But there are many things that can be done to help bring comfort, ease and peace to this process. Planning ahead gives everyone a sense of preparation and being ready. Having a guide to help in this process can be of  valuable assistance. Simple things like having a specific blanket can made a tremendous difference to the dying. Likewise having an organized idea of who will be around for family and friends ensures that the dying is always surrounded by love. But also ensures that family and friends frequently get breaks and rest. The dying do things in their own way on their own time. All a family has to do is take turns being available to show love and care. Having the right things at hand can make the moments before death easier for all and at times even a positive and healing memory. A travelers guide can discuss with the family and the dying about what things may be comforting to have on hand as the moment arrives.